As domestic and family violence is largely about violence by men against women. we need to start conversations on gender relations in our churches. 


Start by opening up conversations around:

  • mob-shaming, slut-shaming and exploitation of women
  • strength and partnership in intimate relationships
  • what masculinity is considered as, and how this actually plays out
  • the real statistics behind domestic violence
  • how to talk about sex with our young people
  • developing healthy attitudes towards relationships, domestic and pre-domestic
  • dealing with “pack nature” in male approach to girls & women.


When a conversation is started, people can get real about what is at the root of domestic violence – which is the desire for power and control. It is amazing how easily we fail to identify these behaviours with our partners, our peers and ourselves.

Do you need support?

The following Domestic and Family Violence support services are available: