A boy, a skatepark, and church safety
Ellaina Welsman reflects on raising a boy, the church's role to uphold safety, and challenge harmful gender stereotypes.

We dream of a world where all people, made in the image of God, are safe, respected, and can flourish in every relationship, and where violence against women is eliminated.
All people, being made in the image of God, are designed to live in healthy, loving relationships with each other. In God’s good design, our homes and communities are intended as places of nurture, where relationships are shaped by equality, respect, and dignity - where every person can flourish.
In too many places across our nation, the reality is far from this vision.
Domestic and family violence shatters God’s vision for our relationships. Where God intends love, trust, and mutual care, violence brings fear, control, and harm. Instead of equality, it imposes domination. Instead of dignity, it strips away worth. Instead of safety, it creates danger in the very places that should be most secure.
In Australia, 1 in 4 women since the age of 15 has experienced physical or sexual violence. Australia’s unacceptably high rates of domestic and family violence are prevalent across every part of society—including churches.
In churches where victim-survivors have not been believed, perpetrators have been protected, or harmful interpretations of Scripture have been used to justify coercion and control, we have failed to provide safety.
By ignoring or denying violence, we deny the very heart of the gospel; we deny God's call for us to bring safety and protection, to be peacemakers, and to nurture and honour one another as beloved children of God.
Jesus always protects the vulnerable, confronts injustice, and embodies love and respect. We want to follow the example of Jesus: our model for equal, loving, and mutual human relationships.
Guided by the love of Jesus, we work to call and equip Christians and faith communities to:
Common Grace’s response to domestic and family justice involves
We are called to be people of healthy relationships who reflect God’s love through equality, respect, and mutual care. Together, we must challenge harmful gender norms, speak out against violence, and reshape culture so that abuse is no longer tolerated.
May we build churches and communities that are truly safe; places where survivors are believed, the vulnerable are protected, and every person is valued as a beloved image-bearer of God.
The following Domestic and Family Violence support services are available:
Ellaina Welsman reflects on raising a boy, the church's role to uphold safety, and challenge harmful gender stereotypes.
We are thrilled to announce the appointment of Ellaina Welsman as the new Domestic and Family Violence Justice Coordinator. Ellaina is deeply passionate about seeing churches commit to and make steps towards ending violence against women.
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