16 Days of Prayer Against Domestic and Family Violence

Join us for 16 DAYS of Prayer against Domestic & Family Violence with Christians from across Australia.

Common Grace's Domestic and Family Violence Justice Team marks the 16 days of activism against gender-based violence with a series of daily reflections from 25thNovember - 10thDecember

In the past, we've sketched out the basics of Domestic and Family Violence awareness - sharing statistics about the prevalence of abuse, characteristics of DFV, who is affected, and how.

As part of our series in 2019, we changed focus to something foundational. We raising questions (and offered answers) on how cultures of violence are formed in our society and even our churches. 

But, importantly, we also offered reflections, from church works and members, as well as experts, on how they can be changed

If you're interested in creating space for safety and healing in our churches, and our world, explore the daily reflections and prayer guide shared as part of this 2019 series below.



Why now?

The campaign will begin on the International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women . It will also coincide with the UN’s 16 Days of Activism against Gender-Based Violence Campaign that, since 1991, has sought to galvanise action to end violence against girls and women around the world.

Why sign up?

In 2019, as part of the 16 DAYS of prayer, Common Grace shared a series of daily emails from our team, with statistics, stories and prayer points, each regarding a different aspect of domestic & family violence’s wide-ranging impact. This series was a great way to get educated about what is happening in our world and to bring before God the cries of our hearts.

Why do Christians care?

Domestic & family violence has long been a private issue. When current statistics point towards one in six women having experienced domestic & family violence in Australia, we know that within churches there are both victims and perpetrators. How the church and Christians respond to them is crucial in seeing justice, healing and transformation. In some cases, churches have responded to domestic & family violence in wonderfully supportive ways for victims. However sadly there have been countless times when the church has let women and children down, and sometimes put them even more at risk through disbelief, minimising the victim’s experience, or staying silent.

This inadequate response must not continue. We believe that the first instinct of Christians must be a genuine compassion for those who have been harmed in our communities. We at Common Grace hope that we can support churches and faith communities to be equipped to be safe and affirming places for women to disclose abuse. Where justice will be sought, action will be taken and real support offered. Victims need to have confidence that they will be heard and believed. That domestic & family violence will not be excused, that victims will not be blamed.

Jesus always protects the vulnerable and exposes evil. We want to follow the example of Jesus: our model for equal, loving, and mutual human relationships.

We recognise that gender inequality lies at the heart of domestic & family violence. That violent attitudes and behaviours have their root in the same place – the abuse of power and control of one person over another.

In Australia one in three women experience physical violence in their lifetime. One in six Australian women experience physical or sexual violence from an intimate partner, and one in four experience emotional abuse from a partner. And these statistics are just the tip of the iceberg of the brutality and horror of this epidemic.

Common Grace also believes that governments have a major role to play and we will be doing more in the coming months to call the Australian government to urgent, well-resourced action.

Let’s stand in solidarity with those affected by domestic and family violence – united for the common good, together, finding common ground and sharing in common grace.